Someday I'd like to learn how to be kinky...but that's another topic.
Lately I've been playing with the idea that when a truth is going to be mixed with or interpreted in the context of half-truths, there can be no functional truth. Everything I say will be a lie, essentially. And so I am free to use whatever ideas help me most.
For example, if someone wants to know if I'm a virgin to couple it with he idea that virgins are sexually or social deficient, then I'm not a virgin.
If someone wants to know to couple it with the idea that girls who aren't virgins are less pure (or more sluts), then I am.
And if a doctor needs to know for a medical reason or someone is doing a scientific study, I'll answer with that context in mind.
But in the social world, rather than fight prejudices, I'm going to try to...work with them... :)